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    The Ultimate Guide to Dildos - The World’s First Sex Toy Ever

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    Welcome to your ultimate guide to dildos! 

    If you’re here, chances are you’re a little curious, maybe even excited, but definitely ready to learn more about one of the world’s most versatile and popular pleasure tools.

    In this article, we’ll go through everything you ever wanted to know about dildos but were perhaps too shy to ask. 

    We’ll cover all the big questions, like:

    What exactly is a dildo?

    What different kinds can I try?

    And, okay…how do I even use one?

    No worries, though – by the end, you’ll know the answers to all those questions and be ready to confidently pick your perfect match!

    What Exactly is a Dildo?

    To put it simply, a dildo is a sex toy designed for penetration – be it vaginal, anal, or oral.

    They are one of the oldest, most beloved types of sex toys, dating back to prehistoric times, and while they’ve evolved quite a bit, their popularity is still rock-hard (pun intended). 

    Traditionally, most dildos are designed to resemble an erect human penis, but nowadays, they come in so many shapes, sizes, and materials; there’s literally a dildo for everyone

    Seriously, if there’s a specific sensation or look you’re after, it’s out there. 

    Want something that looks like it was beamed down from outer space? Check

    A sleek glass design that doubles as a work of art? Check

    Or maybe even a custom-crafted replica of your or your partner’s “package”? Also check! - What, you don’t believe me? Then come along because you’re in for a treat. *wink*

    A hand holding a double dildo

    Different Materials

    Now that we all know dildos come in endless shapes, sizes, and styles, picking the perfect one can feel a bit overwhelming.

    One of the biggest factors to consider when choosing a sex toy is the material, as each one feels different, offers a unique experience and requires specific care.

    So, to make things easy, here’s a quick rundown of the main materials to help you find “The One”:

    Silicone

    Let’s start with a fan-favourite that checks all the right boxes: smooth, body-safe, and durable - silicone!

    Silicone dildos are known for their dreamy, velvety skin-like texture that feels incredible against your skin and quickly warms up to your body’s temperature.

    With a perfect mix of firmness and flexibility, silicone caters to all preferences – whether you like it soft and squishy or firm with a bit more structure.

    Glass

    Beautiful and unique, glass dildos are like mini masterpieces crafted for pleasure.

    Made from borosilicate glass, known for its durability and smoothness, they’re perfect for those wanting to experiment with temperature play – just heat it up for a warm touch or cool it down for a refreshing tease.

    Unlike softer materials, glass offers zero flexibility, which gives you pinpoint control over pressure and positioning to hit that perfect spot every time without any give.

    A glass dildo inside a water tank with ice cubes

    Metal

    Often made from stainless steel, metal dildos bring a weighty and firm sensation unlike any material, making them a go-to choice for those who crave intensity and control.

    Like glass, metal dildos are non-porous, meaning they’re a breeze to clean and can be used with any type of lube, so you’re free to pick your favourite.

    And the best part? They are also a perfect choice for temperature play - just warm it up or cool it down to add an exciting new edge to your experience.

    Jelly (TPE, TPR, PVC)

    Jelly dildos are known for their budget-friendly appeal and often have a soft, squishy feel, making them the perfect choice for beginners and for those wanting to try out new styles without a big investment.

    They are available in a wide range of colours, shapes, and textures, so if you want to add something fun and different to your collection, jelly’s got you covered. 

    However, with that soft, flexible texture comes a little trade-off: jelly is more porous than materials like silicone, which means it needs a bit more love in the cleaning department to keep things fresh and bacteria-free.

    Many glass dildos on an orange background

    What Types of Dildos Are Out There?

    Now that we know a bit about the materials available, let’s talk types:

    Realistic dildos

    While we know nothing can replace the "real thing", realistic dildos sure do come close and are designed not only to look but feel like an actual penis.

    They can come with and without testicles, circumcised or not, feature visible veins and a distinctly shaped head - and of course, they come in various skin tones and sizes, so you're sure to find your favourite.

    PS: And if you didn't believe me when I said there's a dildo out there that looks exactly like your or your partner's package, you should definitely check out Clone-A-Willy!

    Suction Cup Dildos

    If you’re looking for an exciting hands-free experience, suction cup dildos are here to stick with you!

    Equipped with a sturdy, reliable base, these dildos can latch onto almost any smooth surface, from your shower wall to a bedroom mirror or even a chair.

    Dildos with suction cups are perfect for both solo or partnered play, freeing up your hands to explore other sensations or to bring even more toys into the fun.

    G-Spot Dildos

    G-spot dildos are designed with a gentle curve to help you hit that spot. 

    These dildos are all about precision, and once you master using them,  they’re known for unlocking mind-blowing, toe-curling sensations.

    Curious about finding the elusive G-spot? Don’t worry – we’ve got you covered with a complete guide to help you find it, understand it, and make the most of every moment with the perfect toy.

    Anal Dildos

    Anal dildos are crafted to make backdoor play both comfortable and exciting.

    They’re typically slimmer and tapered at the tip for easier insertion and should always come with a flared base – a must-have for safe anal play.

    Designed for all experience levels, they range from beginner-friendly sizes to more adventurous options for those who want a fuller experience.

    If you’re exploring anal play with a bit of curiosity toward prostate stimulation, look out for the P-spot dildos. These dildos have a subtle curve or angle to target the prostate, providing unique sensations for those with this pleasure spot.

    Curious about exploring the P-spot? We’ve got a whole article about how to massage the prostate right here!

    Vibrating Dildos

    Vibrating dildos combine classic design with a little extra thrill.

    With built-in motors, these dildos add that delightful buzz that can turn any solo or partnered session into a whole new experience.

    Most offer adjustable vibration levels, from a soft purr to an intense rumble, so you can match the rhythm to your mood.

    A vibrating dildo splashing water

    Double Dildos

    Double the pleasure, double the fun! With a shaft at each end, double dildos are perfect for sharing the fun with a partner or for exploring double-penetration solo.

    These versatile toys typically have length and flexibility, allowing for simultaneous penetration and endless experimentation with positions.

    Fantasy Dildos

    Designed for those who want to explore beyond the ordinary, fantasy dildos come in a variety of shapes, textures, and colours inspired by mythical creatures and otherworldly beings.

    Think alien tentacles, dragon scales, or even an egg-laying beast – fantasy dildos invite you to step into a world of pure imagination.

    Perfect for those who want to push the boundaries of pleasure, fantasy dildos offer a fun and unique way to explore sensations and bring your most playful fantasies to life.

    After all, why stick to reality when you can have a bit of magic?

    How to Use a Dildo (And Have a Damn Good Time Doing It)

    So now that you know the difference between the materials and types of dildos (and hopefully found your perfect match), you might be wondering... "How exactly do I even use this thing?"

    Well, you didn't think our ULTIMATE guide would leave that out, did you? Ha! Of course not!

    The beauty of dildos is in their versatility. They can be used for solo play, couple fun, or anywhere in between! So here is our how-to use a dildo and our best tips to make your experience even better:

    1 - Get Comfy and in the Mood

    Before you even reach for your dildo, take a moment to relax and get in the mood.

    Whether it’s on your bed, on a cosy couch, or even in the shower, find a private, comfortable spot where you can fully focus on yourself and your pleasure without unwanted interruptions.

    Pro tip: Stock up on lube, grab any other toys or “tools”, and – if you’re using a vibrating dildo – double-check that it’s fully charged. Trust us, nothing spoils the mood faster than scrambling for supplies mid-fun.

    2 - LUBE, LUBE, LUBE

    Talking about lubes, we can’t say it enough: Lube makes everything smoother, better, and more enjoyable! Whatever kind of fun you’re getting into, a generous amount of lube can be the difference between “Oh, that’s nice” and “Oh WOW”.

    When choosing your lube, make sure it pairs well with your dildo’s material:

    • Silicone or jelly dildos: Water-based lubes - silicone lube and silicone toys don’t mix.
    • Glass and metal dildos: Lucky you! You can use any lube you like – silicone, water-based, or even oil-based.

    And when in doubt? Water-based lube is always a safe choice.

    A person squeezing lube onto a glass dildo

    3- Take It Slow Now for the fun part—time to play!

    When you’re ready, start slow with gentle, shallow movements—especially if this is your first time using a dildo or if you’re trying anal play

    Experiment with different motions, like a soft thrust, a little swirl, or a slow press, and only go as deep as it feels good. 

    There’s no right or wrong here; just listen to your body, let it adjust to the sensations, and always follow what feels best for you.

    4- Add Some Extra Spice

    Why stop at one toy when you can double (or triple!) the fun and create your own “power combo”?

    Pairing your dildo with a vibrator, clit stimulator, or butt plug lets you explore layers of pleasure you may not have thought possible.

    5. Clean Up Like a Pro

    After all that fun, always remember to clean your toy.

    Give the toy’s manual a quick read for specific cleaning instructions – it’s worth the extra minute.

    For most silicone, glass, and metal dildos, a quick wash with warm water and mild, unscented soap will do the trick. Or, better yet, reach for a dedicated sex toy cleaner – it’s specially formulated to keep things nice and clean without damaging your toy’s material.

    When it comes to storage, make sure it’s completely dry before storing it in a safe, clean spot away from direct sunlight, and your toy will be ready for action again whenever you are!

    A hand stroking a G-spot dildo

    What Is the Best Dildo if I’m a Beginner?

    If you're shopping for your first-ever dildo, starting with a slender and small dildo is the way to go. A good tip for beginners is to choose a dildo that's about the same width as the number of fingers you're comfortable using already.

    A perfect example is the Sinful Slender Silicone Dildo Small. It's made from soft silicone and comes in an approachable size, making it the best dildo for testing the waters. And the best part? When you're ready to level up, you can switch to a medium or even a large version from the same series—how convenient is that?

    Looking for something a little more lifelike? A realistic dildo with a suction cup, like the Willie City Realistic Dildo, might be just the thing. It's not only realistic in feel but also super versatile, letting you explore different angles and positions—hands-free!

    Ready to Play

    There you have it – the ultimate guide to dildos! Now that you’re armed with all the knowledge, it’s time to find your perfect dildo match. 

    Remember, there’s no right or wrong way to play – it’s all about discovering what makes you feel good. 

    With so many shapes, sizes, and styles to choose from, you’re bound to find that one (or two, or three…) that brings you exactly what you’re looking for.

    Enjoy the ride – literally!

    Pink dildos next to each other in a blue background

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